Ladies, are you sexually curious or wanting to try something different? Are you uncomfortable with males or just wanting to take a break from the male-female sexual dynamic? Perhaps you are happily single but feeling adventurous. Consider these pros to joining a couple for a threesome.
• Physical safety – some women are uncomfortable being alone with men in intimate settings. This could stem from inexperience or even past negative experience. The presence of another female can increase the perception of comfort and physical safety.
• Sexual safety – while sexual health should be top of mind during any encounter, in a threesome situation you can take some comfort in knowing the couple also has a vested interested in each other’s health in addition to yours.
• No relationship pressure – joining a couple offers the opportunity to experience sex without the context of partner appraisal and the pressure of relationship dynamics.
• Female support – any couple worth joining should be open, friendly and understanding. If you have any health or personal concerns, you have another female to confide to about them. She can help support your case and empathize. The couple most likely has a high level of comfort between them in order to be contemplating inviting a third party to participate. Chances are the male has already dealt with awkward and embarrassing situations with his partner.
• Exploration – the dynamics of three people is very different than two. There are endless variations as to how a female-male-female threesome could play out. Perhaps both females want to focus on the male. Maybe one party just likes to watch the other two. Maybe the females only decide to interact. You just may learn something new about your hidden likes and preferences!
-29, Boston, Female, Happily married
